dada's girl

i love you, dada

thanks for everythng you do to take care of me

happy father's day

xoxo

Scarlett

father's day

daddydave had a wonderful first father's day. {he told me, i promise i'm not making it up!} we spent the day together as a family enjoying perfect weather, outdoor music and, in david's words, "man meals."

sunday morning family time, Scarlett gives daddydave his first father's day card

happy father's day!! we love you!!

{even though Scarlett now refuses to smile for pictures,

 and instead just gets upset that she can't take the iphone from you}

father's day "man meals"

i offered to make david whatever he wanted for father's day...

this is what he wanted...

lunch

dinner

serious culinary tastes he has!
oh, and i didn't even make anything. he wanted to make it all.
no complaints from me!

fyi, daddyD, now that i know you can arrange a platter...

inspiring graduation: class of 2011!

kate is one of my best friends and one of Scarlett's favorite non-biological aunties. besides those important roles, she is also an incredible high school teacher and leader at KIPP King Collegiate. i had the absolute priviledge to attend her school's FIRST graduation ceremony last saturday.

in a word, it was inspiring!

KIPP is a national network of high performing charter schools which stands for Knowledge is Power Program. most of the schools are middle schools, but kate is a founding teacher at the bay area's first KIPP high school. what does this mean? kate and a small group of dedicated teachers started a new high school for underserved students from scratch...

last saturday, four years later, the founding class at KIPP King graduated as the class of 2011! and even more impressive than graduating this class where many of the students are first generation high school graduates, is the fact that there is a ONE HUNDRED PERCENT college acceptance and planned college attendace rate among the students!

this was no easy task. the school has extended hours, a year round school schedule and all students must participate in an extracurricular activty. they have a rigorous college prep curriculum that unfortunately is not offered at many of the public high schools in their demographic.

i have witnessed kate work tireless hours and constantly worry about her students. she is now the assistant principal at the school, and she means business. oh, i've seen her in action, she don't take shiz from nobody. but she is also the most caring and dedicated teacher and role model these students could ask for.

the graduation was one big inspriring love fest honoring the hard work and struggles the students faced and how they persevered beyond them. pride was beaming from each of the students and even more so from the multitude of family members who carried signs and flowers and enormous smiles on their faces.

i left the ceremony feeling like i had witnessed something historic and life-changing. it was both of those things!

kate: i am so proud of your work and your students! 

if you'd like to learn more about KIPP click here and here and here.

working mammas: check out my friend's blog

friends and readers:

you know i have written before about my experience as a working mom. i love my job but i looooooove Scarlett. i'm proud of my education and the work that i do, but i can't help feeling guilty about leaving baby S. am i missing out on too much of her life? will she unerachieve in school and ultimately in life because i can only take her to music class at the library 4x/month? why do i feel such rejection when she reaches for daddydave or the babysitter instead of me? {i thought rejection from your daughters didn't happen until age 13? sorry mom, btw}

on the other hand, i like contributing to something beyond me and i definitely like earning a nice salary. i feel proud that i am contributing to my family (read: being a sugar mamma). but childcare is EXPENSIVE! so sometimes the cost-benefit analysis doesn't seem balanced.

how do you figure it all out and feel ok with your decision?

well, i am {obviously} not the only mamma in the universe who feels conflicted. most working mammas experience some guilt about leaving their babes and jealous of the time SAHM have with them, but my stay at home mamma friends say that sometimes the grass looks greener on this side with a life outside of home. whatever side you are on, my new friend** has written a great post on the challenges of working that really hit home with me.

though staying at home is not an option for us right now, i'm constantly weighing my guilt over income necessity and professional fulfillment. perhaps this won't always be the case as my husband just finished grad school, but even if i did have the option to stay home full time...would i really want to?

does this resonate with you too?

**my new mom friend is a friend-of-a-friend who i have heard of for many years and then finally had the pleasure of meeting last weekend at another friend's baby shower. this should have happened sooner except for the fact that the continental united states stands between each of our residences. anyway, at the shower, besides laughing hysterically and bonding over mom things while enjoying midday mimosas, we learned we are both mom bloggers. check her's out! i think you'll really like it.

lil bite o hummus

Scarlett's new favorite food: hummus

seriously? those eyes!

honesty corner: typical saturday night at the Heater's

(the Heater's, btw, is how the iPhone autocorrects our last name, 
so some of our friends have started calling us that. 
i think it's kinda catchy, and a good internet pseudonym, so gonna go with it)

typical saturday night at the Heater's: sushi takeout!

and in typical Heater's fashion, we over-ordered, 

yet it's all completely consumed.

yum yum! i heart tempura and nigiri from our fave neighborhood place! 

{and i've also finally discovered instagram, fun pictures to come}

and now i will recline on the couch,

 snuggle with the hubs and watch a movie. yay!

happy weekend to you!

honesty corner: phone addiction

uh-oh! this is totally me!

phone addicted parent

 quick funny cnn article about media obsession with tips to reduce phone time

including the most obvious, tried and true one: have dinner as a family.

though i am completely obsessed and attached to my iphone,

i do have a long-standing no phones at dinner rule.

i might try to instate an "only words with friends while scarlett is napping" rule,

but, yikers, that might be really really difficult.

i'll keep you updated on how it goes.

are you addicted to your smart phone like this mamma and me?

what can you do to reduce the phone always in hand time?

cause and effect

Scarlett has learned how to put one thing (a block) into another thing (a bowl) and then dump it out! still working on all the finer intricacies of it, but this is a huge milestone: learning cause and effect.

i don't know about you, but i am totally impressed!

scarlett, you are learning new things everyday. it is so exciting and fun to watch. i want to be inside your brain (using scary monster voice with modified jazz fingers wiggling toward head) so i can see it all take place.

and yes, those are the kinds of things i say to her when we play

as well as....

i love you like ccrrrrrrraaaaaay-zzzzeeeeee!

(because, obviously, i do)

new fave game = Scarlett toss

it may sound like a squeal of terror to you, but i can assure you this is Scarlett squealing in delight. it's been gorgeous weather recently so we took advantage of our condo's courtyard to play Scarlett's new favorite game.

sssshhhh!!!

david doesn't check this...

so i can share one of his father's day presents here.

dads deserve to be pampered too!

i feel a lot of pressure to get some good father's day gifts considering its his first one. and, of course, because he's such a fantastic father to the sweet baby S.

i've got a few other ideas brewing, but what are you getting your hubs/s.o./baby daddy?

summah dinnah - tuna burgers with wasabi coleslaw

sum-sum-sum-summatime

even though it's not exactly summer weather in san francisco, it's always nice to pretend with changing menus. last sunday the hubs was feeling a summer inspired hamburgers-on-the-grill dinner. that sounded a little too heavy to me so as i wandered through whole foods trying to think of what to make, i came across tuna burgers with the box suggesting "try with wasabi mayonaise." yumms! the wheels started spinning. coleslaw would be nice and fresh with that, oh, and put wasabi in the coleslaw too. and avocados on top. hhmm... i see sweet potato fries out of the corner of my eye. yes! quick and easy dinner = complete! here's what i created below. all these things could definitely be made from scratch, but i went the easy route for this summer sunday meal. ...super simple and semi-healthy. at least healthier than a regular cheeseburger and fries i'm convincing myself. enjoy!

ingredients:

package frozen tuna burgers

package frozen sweet potato fries

package shredded broccoli and carrots

1/2 c mayonaise

4+ tsp wasabi powder

2 tbsp vinegar

avocado

whole wheat english muffins

salt & pepper

first make the coleslaw so it can sit for a bit while everything else is cooking. i used shredded broccoli slaw package because i like that better than cabbage, but use whatever you want or have. mix desired amount of wasabi powder with a touch of water to form paste. add to 1/2 c mayonaise, stir. (i started with 4 teaspoons powder and then increased by a teaspoon at a time until i reached the spice/flavor ratio that i wanted). add half the wasabi mayo to the slaw, and save the rest for the burgers. add 2 tbsp vinegar, salt and pepper as desired and mix. let stand at least 30 minutes. doneskis!

cook burgers and fries according to package directions. i baked both, ready in under 20. toast up some whole wheat english muffins and spread with saved wasabi mayo (i used english muffins because a burger bun seemed too thick and overpowering), stack the burgers, add slices of avocado, serve with fries and coleslaw, and voila! dinner is served. 

oh, and in an unexpected surprise, Scarlett loooved the tuna burgers! I started by offering her the sweet potato fries thinking she'd love those, but she kept reaching for the tuna instead. success!

what do you think? sound good? gonna give it a try? what quick summer dinners are successes for your fam?

swing-swinging

ready for the pool

all i wanna do is squeeze those thighs!!!

i'm one excited mamma that we are finally starting a mom 'n me swim class next week.

one shoulder strap giraffe print one piece?

girl, who's your stylist?!